Get laid, not played: These are the best hookup apps of 2025

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Bumble is great for women and non-binary people who are interested in making a quick connection, whether casual or more serious.

Though it can have much of the same crowd as Tinder, its Opening Moves feature (a twist on the women message first rule that made it popular) encourages users to actually communicate, helping you get fewer dead matches than you might with Tinder.

This app can be a great place to find something long-term, but that's not all it's for. Bumble profiles feature a setting for users to toggle what they're looking for, including "fun, casual dates" and "intimacy, without commitment." This makes it easier to find someone who's on the same page as you while offering women and non-binary folks the opportunity to set the tone of your interaction.

“Bumble is a helpful app for women who want to avoid being creeped on and only hear from men they're interested in,” Suzannah Weiss, an author and resident sexologist for Fleshy, tells Mashable. “When women are looking for men, they send the first message. I recommend that women using Bumble take their time to craft an original first message because some women do complain about a lack of responses, which is more of an issue if your opening message is a basic ‘hey, how are you?”

Weiss added, “Thankfully, Bumble now lets people add ‘Opening Moves,’ which are questions you can respond to in your first message. This makes it easier to craft an initial message that’s original. Be as honest, forthcoming, and uniquely yourself in these responses as possible.” You have 24 hours to make the first move, then the app gives your match 24 hours to respond — in other words, if you're looking for a casual hookup ASAP, Bumble will help you filter through the users who aren't a good match.

With Bumble, you can chat via text, voice, or video without spending a dime. Of course, premium features are available for purchase (via Bumble Boost or premium membership) and offer the useful option to filter users by what they're looking for, but that's by no means necessary to find a potential hookup buddy. Plus, free users still have access to basic filtering features like age, distance, and toggling to see verified profiles only.

Grindr is a popular hookup app for gay men. Correction: It's the hookup app for gay men. As one of the leading mainstream dating apps designed exclusively for the LGBTQ+ community, it offers a range of relationship possibilities, but it is a common spot to find a fast and casual hookup.

We do want to note that more recently, Grindr paywalled some match features and has been experiencing bugs — while it's by far still the most popular gay dating app, we've been looking into other options.

Beyond the basic hookup functionality, Grindr has expanded. In a 2024 presentation at Grindr HQ, company heads said nearly 3.5 million people on the app already use it for travel purposes — getting restaurant recs, deets on LGBTQ+ events, finding a safe place to crash, etc. And so Grindr added the "Roam" feature, which lets you temporarily drop your pin anywhere in the world for an hour to check out the scene before you even get there.

Grindr's also made moves to become safer and more authentic, as far as dating apps go. In February 2025, they launched an in-app Safety Center to centralize privacy info and resources. More recently came "Taken on Grindr," an optional feature adding a timestamp to photos snapped with the in-app camera ("Taken on Grindr — just now") to prove they're fresh.

While these features show that Grindr is trying to respond to user concerns about trust and transparency, neither is a silver bullet. The timestamp, for instance, is opt-in and only applies to pics taken directly through their camera, so it's hardly a foolproof shield against old photos or misrepresentation elsewhere. Consider these steps in the right direction, but maintain a healthy skepticism. After all, knowing a photo was taken "just now" is one thing, but it doesn't guarantee a good or safe hookup.

HER is a platform created by and for queer women, providing a safe and inclusive space to connect with women and nonbinary folks without worrying about being sexualized by skeevy men. While HER isn't exclusively designed for hookups, it offers a vibrant community where you can explore casual encounters or even find meaningful relationships. With over four million active users, the app is brimming with opportunity.

If you're looking for a simple way to mention you're not springing to jump into anything long-term, the "Looking for" section of the profile provides a "something casual" tag that'll be displayed out in the open on your profile. To streamline your search, you can filter users by this tag (and more) if you're willing to pay for a membership. Adding it to your profile is completely free of charge, though, as is adding interests like "kink" or questions like "Top, bottom, or switch?" Basically, it's easy to send out and see indicators that someone is on the app for sex.

Beyond focusing on romantic and sexual relationships, HER has created an inclusive space for the 2SLGBTQ+ community. This is an excellent breeding ground for friends with benefits. Because HER offers so many ways to connect, the interface of the app leans on the clunky side — it can definitely feel more overwhelming than Tinder at first — but after a learning curve, it's not too difficult to navigate.

HER lets you use your phone number, email, Apple ID, or Facebook/Instagram account to sign up. Like other apps on this list, HER has added a checkmark badge to photo-verified profiles. The app even runs like Facebook with a feed filled with events, media, and, more specifically, tailored to the 2SLGBTQ+ community.

Read our full OkCupid review.  

OkCupid isn't just for serious relationships. It's also a surprisingly solid option for finding casual hookups. Its unique matching algorithm goes beyond just looks, focusing on your interests, values, and even your stance on social issues. This means you can connect with people who vibe with your personality and lifestyle, leading to more meaningful (and potentially hotter) encounters.

Plus, it was ahead of the curve on gender identity, sexual orientation, and social issues before it was trendy.

This LGBTQ-friendly site has won the hearts of open-minded singles by dedicating a portion of its profile-building prompts to the current political climate: weed, guns, vaccinations, women's rights, and more topics are covered. This, coupled with a progressive attitude toward profile building, from open pronoun and orientation options, helps to reel in an informed, respectful, and sex-positive crowd. Plus, they were doing this before every other app decided to start including prompts and profile options about kink and ethical non-monogamy (OkCupid beat Hinge by about six years when it came to including options for polyamorous users).

While a paid plan offers the most extensive features, you can still use its search filters without ever paying a dime. In other words, you can literally search for the keyword "hookup" — or any other common interests that might be important to you — and see what users have those words in their profile. Even easier is marking down the type of connection you're looking for on profile preferences — both "new friends" and "hookups" are options.

On a website that can lean more relationship-oriented, it's still simple to find people looking for the same casual connection as you. And thanks to the app's brief questionnaire, you may actually connect with them on a deeper level beyond just physical attraction.

Hinge loves marketing itself as the app "designed to be deleted," but don't let that fool you into thinking it's only for serious relationship hunters. While it definitely encourages more substance than superficial swiping (aka Tinder), Hinge is surprisingly effective for finding hookups, especially if you're in a reasonably populated area.

Hinge combines the best of both worlds: the quick swiping of dating apps with a slightly more relationship-focused vibe. With Hinge, you get the ease of swiping without the superficiality, making it perfect for singles who are open to hooking up but also wouldn't mind finding something more meaningful if the right person comes along.

Though it may attract a relationship-seeking crowd, Hinge gives you tools to make your intentions clear. The "Dating Intentions" section lets you advertise exactly what you're looking for right on your profile, so you can filter in people with similar dating goals (and filter out those searching for a "Life Partner").

More recently, Hinge added "Match Note," a feature that lets you share private details pre-chat. While some may use it to get more serious conversations out of the way, you could leverage it to subtly flag relationship preferences or expectations early.

Hinge has also added features to improve safety and help manage interactions. The "Hidden Words" tool lets you filter out specific words, phrases, or emoji from incoming messages. It also introduced "Your Turn Limits," which requires you to respond to some unanswered messages before liking new profiles.

While it might seem like a push toward commitment, it can actually incentivize engaging with potential hookups already in your queue instead of just endlessly collecting matches.

Hinge marketing talks a big game about relationships, but its thoughtful features and slightly more intentional user base make it a solid option for finding hookups that might start with decent conversation. It's a good middle ground if Tinder feels too chaotic, but you're not ready to settle down just yet.

Pure is the place to be if you're looking for uncomplicated, no-strings-attached hookups without the pressure to define the relationship. Say goodbye to mixed signals and awkward conversations about "What are we?" Pure is where you can be openly horny without shame or judgment.

The app encourages users to maintain a sense of anonymity post-interaction or to "pretend like you're strangers afterward," making no-strings-attached sex the only name of the game. In a dating landscape where most apps are trying to be for anyone looking for any type of connection, Pure stands out as it's designed exclusively for hooking up.

Pure offers a unique and discreet approach to casual hookups. Write your ad, and the app does the rest. It uses your geolocation and sends out the sex version of an Uber request. If any users who meet your preferences like what they say, the app connects you. Using filters is also free, which makes searching for the right match much easier.

The app's self-destructing feature ensures that your uploaded selfies, personal information, and conversations disappear after 60 minutes, promoting spur-of-the-moment and borderline anonymous hookups.

Though you can find someone down for pretty much anything, Pure doesn't have that same sketchy vibe as AdultFriendFinder. If you receive a photo that looks like it might be a nude, for instance, the app will cover it with a filter that says, "Looks like a nude," so you can choose whether or not you want to see it.

"Some people also like the app Pure for finding hookups," says Weiss. "It’s a little less progressive than Feeld in that it’s not specifically for the non-monogamous, BDSM, or queer communities, so you will get more straight cis men who are looking for a conquest or don’t really understand good communication or consent practices," she adds. "[Despite] people like that, it is a space where you can be open and direct about your sexual fantasies and find someone to fulfill them without the frills of dating."

Basically, if you don't want to spend time setting up a lengthy profile or wading through a sea of users looking for something more serious, Pure lets you get to the point. The biggest trade-off? The smaller user base compared to more general dating apps like Tinder. But hey, at least you know the person on the other end won't ask you to be a plus-one at their friend's wedding.

Read our full review of Match.

While Match is known for finding a long-term partner, its large and diverse user base also includes individuals who are open to other relationship dynamics, including casual hookups. We won't sugarcoat it — it will certainly be more difficult to find something no-strings-attached on here than if you were looking for a serious relationship.

But, if you belong to a slightly more mature demographic, have some patience, and maybe most importantly, the budget, Match could be a good fit for you.

We know Match isn't the raunchiest place (it's actually known for its relationship success rate), but its massive user base of over seven million people can't be ignored. Even if you're not looking for a long-term relationship like many members, there's a decent chance you'll find a ton of users also down for something risqué and casual.

One main difference between Match and most other sites we've listed is that Match sees a more diverse age range. Sure, there are large numbers of young people on Match who are probably on Tinder as well, but Match also attracts significantly older, more mature (and probably more experienced in bed) users.

The downside is that it tends to attract these users because it costs a pretty penny, and there's no functional free version of the site. Still, if you're at an age where you feel nothing but creepy on Tinder, Match is a nice alternative, especially if you could see a hookup leading to a relationship.

In 2024, a class action lawsuit accused the Match Group of making its apps intentionally addictive and "game-like," as our sister site PCMag reported (PCMag is owned by Mashable's publisher, Ziff Davis). In addition to Match, the Match Group owns popular dating apps, including Tinder, Hinge, OKCupid, and Plenty of Fish.

Read our full review of Zoosk.

In theory, Zoosk is an option for literally anyone. It's known for having a large user base, which should be great for finding a quick hookup, but in reality, the app is full of dead and fake profiles. We only recommend Zoosk if you've exhausted all other dating app options.

Zoosk sports a flirty "pick up and go" philosophy when it comes to online dating, so they won't make you answer a torturous string of questions about yourself. Instead, Zoosk monitors your on-site activity and attempts to give you better matches based on what you already like, so if the idea of minimal effort appeals to you, in theory, Zoosk would be your place. There are, however, a few caveats.

Specifying the age range and gender you're looking for in a partner does little to narrow down your options. That might be fine for a strict hookup, but the app has some bigger problems. Zoosk may boast 40 million members, but it also has plenty of dead or fake profiles, so chances are you'll see some repeat users. It's also not uncommon for the site to show you people living thousands of miles away, so it might require more patience if you're looking for an in-person connection.

The other main drawback is, again, the amount of fake or dead profiles makes this place seem like the dating site version of The Last of Us. Of course, all dating sites have their fair share of duds, but Zoosk is just feeling that plague a bit more intensely (we've heard it's mostly female profiles).