Closes #630

Summary

This adds an option to suppress errors for dependencies that are in the dependencies array but not used in the hook function.

The option schema is below. It could also have the new field inside the hooks array but I think you'd generally want to use this for every hook type.

// this config
"useExhaustiveDependencies": {
  "reportUnnecessaryDependencies": false,
  "hooks": [...] // unchanged
}

// allows this
function ReportUnecessaryDependencies() {
    const [a] = useState("hello")
    const [b] = useState("world");
    useEffect(() => {
        console.log(a); // <- prints when b changes, but does not use b
    }, [a, b]);
    return a;
}

Additionally, the options struct for this rule was originally designed to be reused, but at some point it was removed from useHookAtTopLevel here, now it's not actually reused anywhere. Since this PR adds an option field specific to this rule, I've renamed the options struct to indicate that it's non-reusable.

Test Plan

A unit test is included