build: merge artifacts before publish

build: do not compile time extension

cibuildwheel uses msvc to build on Windows, and msvc
does not support certain C features used in the time
extension. So I have to disable it for now.

build: pypa/cibuildwheel@2.16.5

build: sqlite 3.45.0

build: sqlite 3.44.0

build: remove linux aarch64

build: sqlite 3.43.0, sqlean 0.21.8

build: install setuptools

fix: include PRAGMA in exclusions to is_dml logic

see coleifer/pysqlite3#58

feat: extension management (#1)