strip MH_DYLIB_IN_CACHE, disable header growth

thank you to @cgudrian for catching the MH_DYLIB_IN_CACHE flag issue, lldb should finally work now!

also disable something which was causing a regression for the past couple versions

fix init offsets, merge search

oops

tiny wording change

im back

tl;dr usable Ventura 31001 and Monterey AMD VA