Sometimes, I don't know if people are willfully obtuse, dumb, willfully obtuse AND dumb, or just generally don't understand what they are reading, or maybe reading with their eyes closed?
Because a renewed argument is that 'Elain and Mor are too similar' (wut?) and Azriel acts the same with both of them, and in the same breath, the way he acts with Elain is nothing special, and in the same breath he is just substituting Mor with Elain, and then in the same breath he cares for Elain almost 'under duress'? Like he is forced to care about her? (wut?). I dunno, none of it makes sense.
But, if we are going to compare Elain, Mor and Gwyn, then...hmmm, isn't Gwyn a lot more similar to Mor in many ways? Both are spunky, loud, and yearning for independence. Both act like girlbosses, but both are firmly attached to their circumstances and are unable to leave them (Mor the IC/Hewn City, Gwyn the Library), both were brutalized in similar ways, both have strange powers that we don't know much about, both became warriors, both claim to be 'girls' girls', both 'banter', both have latched on to a powerful Archeron sister.
Elain is very nominally similar to Mor, but her essence is absolutely her own. She isn't a girlboss, she isn't a warrior, she isn't loud, she is quiet and observant, but has a steely determination in her.
But going back to Mor and Elain comparisons. What our esteemed antis don't seem to realize is this: yes, Azriel is attracted to both of them, however, SJM specifically emphasized, over, and over and over again, how he acts differently with Elain.
Even in many instances where Elain is literally standing next to Mor.
Others observe his unusual behavior and speak to it.
"I've never seen..." "i've never heard..." "He's never..."
He never laughed so joyously. He never gave Truth Teller to anyone before, he didn't even allow them to touch it. He never argued with Rhys over Mor. He never questioned the Cauldron before. He never chose not to spy on someone because it would invade someone's privacy.
Let's look closer: It took Mor something like 300 years to convince him to go to Rita's with her. He stayed with Elain in the wee hours of the morning to listen to her gardening ideas.
He discarded Mor's gifts, rolling his eyes at her daggers and her embroidered towels, but he keeps Elain's gift on his nightstand to looks at it nightly.
Elain, untrained, inexperienced, wide-eyed, terrified is standing right next to Mor, a mighty warrior with hundreds of years of experience. Azriel veers off to Elain and offers her Truth Teller. Not only that, he takes her hand and wraps it around the hilt of the dagger. Nothing for Mor.
Rhys only ASSUMES that Azriel ponders why he isn't mated to Mor--Azriel himself never said so, never voiced any laments out loud about him and Mor. When it comes to Elain, he immediately argues with Rhys and questions the lack of bond WITH ELAIN specifically.
Azriel spies on Amren, Rhys's Second, and at one point, when she and Rhys were arguing, he literally pulled TT and was ready to attack her. Yet because he doesn't want to invade Elain's privacy, he doesn't spy on Lucien.
When he went to retrieve Mor from Autumn, the stakes were fairly low. He found her, grabbed her and brought her back to Night Court.
When he went after Elain, he risked the fate of all of Prythian. 'I am getting her back' (unlike Cassian's 'we'll get her back') meant that if he perished, his Court, his army, Prythian's force would've lost one of its two greatest warriors. They likely would've lost the war.
Lastly, we've been inside his head. Not one thought about Mor. ALL thoughts about Elain. And Elain only.
Yes, Azriel has a type. Beautiful, brown-eyed women with curves.
But the way he loves Elain is nothing like his teenage infatuation with Mor.