It's been like a while since anyone's used anything but he/him pronouns for me. Which as a transmasc should probably make me happy but I changed NOTHING if anything I stopped doing a ton of things. I don't pack I don't bind I don't voice train Ive even been growing my hair out. I didn't notice it for a while but when I did it was like adding a new string of red yarn to my board of Intersex Investigations™️. This also helped me realize I actually like when people use my actual set of all pronouns it makes me so happy when people switch it up for me it's nice so when that stopped happening that definitely took a bit of a toll on my happiness but lowkey it's all good I love becoming more of a critter every day!
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE someone give me a group of friends who can be in a band with me broooooooooo I have so many bomb songs I've written in my head but no one with enough skill to actually bring them to life and I just need one good jam session and I SWEAR I'll be the next CSH in a week PLEASE I WANNA DO MUSIC 😭
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Pouring one out of whatever drink you prefer to everybody with urethral variations and want to use STPs but they aren't built for your anatomy
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Happy intersex day of remembrance and solidarity. Please remember to take care of yourselves, know that you are worthy of respect, dignity and acceptance. Don't ever give up.
Allies, please check in with your intersex loved ones today, and tell them how much you appreciate them! It could go a very, very long way.
I hope you all have an amazing day 💛💜💛
I watched a video a while back from a man who used to be VERY right but he had changed and reformed and learned better. That one video made me change my mind on so many things. He finally talked about what actually causes people to go farther and farther right. Which of course is propaganda and isolation. When I was in elementary school I remember there were always those kids on the playground who were less than nice. They weren't mean or anything they just didn't understand other people so of course they were a bit insensitive and made mistakes. However instead of teaching the kid better everyone just ignores them and isolates them. This causes a huge domino effect where they go online or wherever to whatever group will take them. And a whole lot of the time especially for young men that will be incels and right wing grifters. With no one else to talk to or help then of course they get worse and worse and deeper and deeper into their propaganda. Being so isolated from the real world always makes it worse and people who instead of thinking of any real way to help these truly vulnerable PEOPLE they spout genocidal bullshit and just say "kill all of them" it just doesn't get into their heads that killing all people you label as " pure evil" and "inhuman" is genocide every time. Even if they are "bad people" they are still human and you can't justify ANY genocide. We cannot continue to exasperate this issue by isolating more and more people. It doesn't just lead to nazis and trump voters it leads to transmeds, trfs, radqueers, racists, ect ect ect. When people are left alone they become vulnerable and call me evil or whatever for saying that most if not all of these groups are filled with hurting vulnerable people who deserve just as much empathy and humanity as every other vulnerable group. This leads people into cults and other highly manipulative groups. At the same time I do not believe that any of these people are good people I don't think any of their actions are justified and I do strongly believe they deserve to be punished for their actions. At the end of the day they still hurt many people and don't deserve to get off Scott free but also I think we can still treat them as human while doing that if not BY doing that. At the end of the day I don't expect anyone to feel bad at a nazis death not even a little bit. I never felt bad when Charlie Kirk died and I don't want anyone to. When Luigi Mangione killed Brian Thompson tbh I feel it was the humane choice that man facilitated millions of deaths no matter if he was human or not. Neither of these people wanted, cared, or tried to be better. It's a very sensitive and hard topic to talk about with many layers and I don't think this is the perfect explanation of my thoughts on it. However I think it's a good jumping off point for someone to make their own opinion.
Tldr/ closing remarks: bad people are bad but at the end of the day still people and can still get better however at some point from "I am racist [slurs] to "I am committing an active genocide" they become irredeemable. I think once they've facilitated so many deaths that whatever they do or say can't undo that then they are irredeemable. It's impossible to put value to a human life so I'm not sure when that is. Anyways thanks for reading if you care enough tell me your thoughts in the comments ❤️
(I still hate Nazis)