One thing that's an instant block is people claiming that Shouto was punching and hurting Touya here, when he was essentially holding him like one would an out of control child so they stop hurting themselves and cools him down so Touya stops burning himself out.
He's even putting him down gently.
Shouto trained that move so he doesn't have to hurt Touya and to deny that is just a complete misrepresentation of what happened.
The family didn't save Touya's soul - they made him realize how easy it would have been to save him, yet they didn't. THat's why it is followed by Touya cracking apart with the pain of why not sooner.
They are literally pulling the pin on Touya's nuke!!!
This is why in 426, Touya is not recalling this fake moment, but the moment he felt Shouto's Phosphor. It was a move Shouto made just for him. To be able to close the distance, to cool Touya down, to hold him through his pain.
Trying to belittle Shouto as not reaching out is complete disregarding of everything he did for Touya.
Specifically belittling "I have a plan and will save my brother with the move I specifically made for this" Shouto in comparison to "I don't know what I will do and in any case I will never forgive you" Izuku and Ochako is foul play.