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@anarchafemme

34 | she/her | stone femme lesbian | minors dnf

🖤 34

🖤 she/her

🖤 white

🖤 intersex

🖤 TMA

🖤 femme4butch/stud

🖤 pillow princess

This is a personal blog and will range from politics, to fandom, shitposts, hobbies, venting, to mild nsfw (21+ lesbians&sapphics can follow the not so mild nsfw @breedingbitchfemme)

Media I post about is mostly Baldur's Gate, Sailor Moon, Dungeon Meshi, Warframe, Utena, and Rose of Versailles

My hobbies are primarily gardening, culinary arts, and homebrewing, I don't post about them super often but that's subject to change.

hi flex rent fucked me over so i had to pay all of my rent from this check with a late fee and i have $20 for the next two weeks

my storage unit internet and phone are due and i rly need boots since mine have holes in them

plz help im asking for $300 total if anyone could help even a dollar is something

0/300

nothing so far, i started making some accounts to do sw from

i got a couple groceries but my bills are still like uelling at me

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my friend nader @abdalsalam2000 has been begging for help from absolutely desperate circumstances. the state of life in gaza is unimaginable, and i feel for him every day. it hurts my heart, man. nader is a great kid. i taught him photography over text, and he was so excited to learn. he really sees beauty everywhere. i admire him for that quality, really, and i care for him so much. whenever i learn something new about him i am endeared to him more. this is a good friend and what i want is his happiness, but first and foremost i need him to survive.

he is struggling a lot financially, and everything is very expensive. help him at least reach his goal. thank you all, please donate.

My friends, we need you today more than ever. What's happening in Gaza isn't reconstruction or anything good. All that's happening is bombing and destroying buildings, killing people, and destroying everything. Please, give us a new life. Please help us. Please donate to us. Don't ignore us. You've always helped us, so please don't abandon us today.

Please stand by Nader and donate to him. He needs every donation and every bit of help. Please.

If you can help Nader and his family and donate to him, everything helps. They need all the support they can get. Please, please donate to him now.

Please donate so Nader can make it through this! Every little bit counts!

Please donate to us. Please don't ignore us. Please donate now. Please.

Please, friends, help us and donate to us. We need all the support and assistance you can get. Please, please, please donate to us now, please.

It saddens me to see that no one has donated in the last 6 hours, and before that, 11 hours ago. Why aren't you donating when we need you? Please, please donate and don't ignore us.

Please, everyone, continue to support us. We need every donation and every bit of help.

Please donate

Please Please donate to nader

November 8, 2025 - Anti-genocide activists replaced the Israeli flag with the Palestinian flag at the Fencing World Cup in Palma, Spain. The activists called for a boycott of the event for allowing Israel to compete and sports-wash its crimes against humanity. [video]

it's exhausting to see constant TMA/TME discourse that fundamentally does not understand intersectionality. Transmisogyny affected, TMA, describes someone who cannot leverage your assigned gender to mitigate the oppressive force of transmisogyny. Transmisogyny exempt, TME, describes someone who is able to leverage their assigned gender in some way to mitigate the oppressive force of transmisogyny. They are not identity labels; they describe a person's relationship to transmisogyny.

these labels also do not categorize people as ontologically "victims" or "oppressors". everyone, including TMA people, can wield transmisogyny and everyone can wield it most effectively against TMA people. just as cis women can perpetrate and enforce misogyny against other cis women, so too can trans women leverage transmisogyny against one another. however, given the relative lower social status of TMA people, we are less able to advance their own social standing by leveraging transmisogyny. Caitlin Jenner is both TMA and openly transmisogynistic, but she is less successful in advancing herself compared to TME people like Marjorie Taylor Green. this is similar to how cis women can wield misogyny against men (like suggesting that an fashionable man is inherently less masculine), but a similar criticism from another man will generally be a more potent attack.

oppressions can look similar: racialized women, particularly black women, are often degendered in ways which superficially resemble transmisogyny. for example, Michelle Obama was mocked for having supposedly "mannish" features. to the extent that transmisogyny might have impacted her, she was able to mitigate it by leveraging the fact that she was assigned and conformed to expectations of women. she was unable to leverage her race to deny the full extent of this public abuse because degendering is a tactic empowered by both racism and transmisogyny. a black trans woman who is similarly degendered cannot leverage TME privilege because of her gender assignment at birth. both people are targeted and harmed in some way by degendering, but one is more able to mitigate that harm due to being able to exempt herself from transmisogyny.

in a similar example, Imane Khelif was subject to simultaneous pressure from transmisogyny, racism, and intersexism. because she is TME, she could leverage her gender assignment and was not barred automatically from competing in women's events at the summer Olympics (an option unavailable to TMA athletes facing similar scrutiny). she also enjoyed an outpouring of public support in favor of her continued participation, whereas TMA athletes received little sympathy or support in the press (in fact, the event that prohibited them was hailed as especially inclusive for lgbtq+ athletes). however, she was still pressured sufficiently by racist and intersexist policies to undergo invasive medical procedures and to publicly reveal medical details that she might have preferred to keep private. the fact that Imane Khelif was subject to other systems of oppression in no way disproves the validity of transmisogyny because she was able to do the thing that defines being TME: she leveraged her assigned gender to exempt herself from transmisogyny.

in Kimberlé Crenshaw's formulation of intersectionality, she describes the unique marginalization of black women. unlike white women, black women cannot leverage their race to mitigate the impacts of racism. unlike black men, black women cannot leverage their gender to mitigate the effects of misogyny. thus, black women are demonstrably subject to a unique synergy of white supremacy and misogyny (misogynoir) from which others are able to exempt themselves to varying degrees and by various means. the same formulation can be applied to TMA people, who are unable to leverage either their gender assignment or social identity, to mitigate oppositional and traditional sexism, thereby rendering us uniquely vulnerable to the synergistic oppression of those forces. (and of course, we cannot forget that TMA people can also be subject to other discrimination from which they cannot exempt themselves; TMA people can also be variously racialized, disabled, poor, intersex, and so on.)

the original got deleted but i finally managed to find a screenshot of the tweet that’s been living in my mind since july of last year

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